How To Deal With Jealousy

Jealousy is a universal phenomenon, present almost everywhere – both in humans and in animals, at all ages – from the earliest childhood to deep age, in partner relationships, at the workplace, in world politics… LGBTQ counselling toronto is a place where you can talk about your feelings, share your deepest thoughts and get an honest and helpful advice when it comes to dealing with different types of situations.
The jealous basis of jealousy is the fear of separation and the fear of loss. Hence in every jealousy there is a need for possession and management.
The beginnings of jealousy are in a relationship between brothers and sisters, and especially against a newly born little rival in the struggle for a mother’s love. In adults, jealousy is most often expressed in a partner relationship. In this case, it refers to a lover who is suspected of being unfaithful and a rival who pretends to be a partner. Although the word is etymologically closely related to love, the psychological connection is not so strong

Jealousy is a normal and abnormal, pathological condition. As a carrier of passion and emotion, a man cannot be immune to jealousy, and jealous reactions are possible within a love relationship. Because of the fear of losing an emotional partner, we are trying to consolidate our emotional investments. In that sense, it is a “normal” feeling. On the other hand, however, jealousy that comes out of the boundaries of transient jealous reactions and becomes a chronic creates a standstill in individualization narrows down the creative potentials of a man and reduces it to a one-dimensional person – frightened, vengeful, narcissistic, possessively inclined, inferior and dependent. The jealous response to loss is a mixture of depression, aggression and longing. Jealousy can be dangerous because it creates hatred, aggression, and desire to rule.
When one is able to see its true defects and failures and accept them as part of life, one can become brave instead of frightened and jealous. It is known that jealous people are often prone to furious reactions. Through the initiation of jealousy, they can find the opportunity to develop a non-defensive and well-founded power of character.
Jealousy often comes down to insecurity, which greatly simplifies its complexity and avoids the deeper layers of the psyche in which it settled. It is important to deal with its content – ideas, memories, fantasies, imagination, emotion.
When a couple lives without evaluating true friendship, communion, when a relationship is no longer a matter of the soul, it is reduced only to stay together. Then one of the partners becomes independent and advocates for freedom, while the other is “dependent” and jealous of the other.

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